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My I believed my DW was involved in an emotional affair with a much younger man. Things were off in our relationship. She talked about this guy constantly and they hung out often. I did snoop on her phone, I just couldn't handle it anymore. The text I found were more her flirting with him and him not responding. Nothing over the top, just her sending lots of blushing emojis and hearts.
I confronted her, she blew up about it accusing me of not trusting her and how could I do that. I explained that sending some guy hearts was out of line imo, she tried to explain it off as she was trying to send positive thoughts his way.
I don't know if anything happened between them, she swears nothing and he moved away. 
I will admit after confronting her she was more secretive of her phone and always deleted everything. This is what others mean by it going underground. 
Its a no win situation you are in op.[/quote]

Damnit I’m so pissed at him for putting me in this no win situation! I just want to give him the benefit of the doubt that this is nothing but then I worry it’s not.  I want to just lay low and work on the relationship, but will be hard to put the effort and patience and vulnerability forward to work on the relationship while I’m also distrusting him and perhaps spying on him.[/quote]

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