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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is how affairs start. Demand he end it now and get to therapy. [/quote]

OP here- some say this and some say lay low or he’ll get even more secretive.  [b]Can’t decide what to do. [/b][/quote]

You have to decide what is more important to you:

1. Do you want to stop something that might happen w/o ever knowing the details of what extent it got to or might have gotten to?

2.  Do you want to know the full truth of the story, but accept that it means you can't control it?

Keep in mind if your husband is a cheater who lies, if you confront him without any concrete evidence or before he's actually doing anything he may become the type of guy who becomes the ultimate gaslighter.  Cheaters do this a lot, they turn themselves into the victim and act like how dare you suspect them and woe-is-them you don't trust them anymore, blah blah.

Or your husband may be a total classy guy who simply omitted some info without any malicious intent.  But personally, I've always preferred to discover this myself vs. taking my man's word for it.  He can tell you all he wants but if you know the truth before he talks, what and how he talks about it reveals everything. [/quote]

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