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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not about "letting it happen" by not saying anything. You want to know whether he will CHOOSE for it to happen without your intervention and without him knowing that you suspect anything. [b]It's about knowing what he will choose when he thinks no one is watching -- if you want to know his true character. [/b] On the flip side, I fo understand wanting to intervene before things can get worse. But with this approach, you may never fund out the whole truth.[/quote] Exactly. Sure OP may be able to stop things from happening with this particular woman now, but if her husband would cheat without her intervention she's only delaying the inevitable. And I say this as someone who has been cheated on many times and who has cheated myself. It wouldn't make me feel better to know my DH only didn't cheat because I acted I treated him like a 5 year old being told he couldn't have candy. [/quote]
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