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[quote=Anonymous]My brother cheated and has since married the OW. His divorce took about 1.5 years and they’d been seeing each other a few months and his state has a waiting period after divorce so they got married about two years after they met. By then she was pregnant. My nephew (child from first marriage) wasn’t allowed to meet her until divorce was final (I think part of why it dragged out) so he met his pregnant future step mother just months before she married his dad.

I don’t agree with how my brother went about things and don’t agree with my family’s approach (which basically was to embrace her / move on) but I also don’t see where the value would have been if I’d refused to meet her those two years. I live far away so it was about 1 year into their relationship before I met her.

I will never agree with my brother’s approach rather than divorcing or at least separating first, but making drawing a line in the sand would just lose me a brother / access to my nephews and alienate family. [/quote]

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