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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The literally worse thing you can do after a failed marriage is have a baby with someone you don't know. Get the abortion and birth control. Keep in mind the divorce and baby affects your child negatively even if you believe it's something you want.

I say this as someone that had an accidental pregnancy with a man that is destructive and abusive. Abusers try to hook women in fast before they see red flags. [/quote]

Please dont let the BF move in.  Worst decision I ever made.  Ex military, ptsd, a host of lies and a trail of tears with many women behind it.

Please consider the abortion, concentrate on your three year old.[/quote]

This happened to you. It doesn’t mean it will happen to her. OP, you are very early in your pregnancy. The chance of miscarriage is very high at your age.[/quote]

This is true. the boyfriend part. miscarriage probability depends on many factors; dont listen to DCUM advice on that.

Regarding the boyfriend though... do the DCUM "hobo"sexual test first. I did not misspell anything.

1. Does he currently live completely on his own and pay his own mortgage/rent ontime?
2. Has he offered to seek a new home for you and baby (and other kids) AND clearly stated that he will either pay or contribute financially to the new home?
3. Does he have ZERO mental illnesses or substance addiction that he struggles to manage?
4. Have you done a background check AND he is clear of questionable arrests or credit issues?
5. Does bf have other kids that he sees regularly and provides substantially for?
6. Have you ever slept at his home and were you comfortable there?

Give 0 points for each yes, 5 points for each no.

If he scores 0 points, not a hobosexual.
If he scores 5-10 points, potential hobosexual. 
15 or more points... google hobosexual.  this guy is one.  and probably narcissitic too. 
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