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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I believe in, the vows of "in sickness and in health". 
Ultimately it's your life and how you choose to deal with a dying spouse. But lets not fool ourself by calling it a gray area. Instead it's being a weasel.[/quote]

May it never happen to you.  I hope you find the strength of your convictions if it does.[/quote]

Ill spouse = Giving up all your dreams. $$$ problems. Probably no sex, no sleep, little affection.  If you had a promising career, say goodbye to it. Your kids will basically be reared by a single parent (hello, that's you). You will end up making all hard decisions by yourself. You will have nobody to rely on but yourself. Spouse, if illness is the long and incurable chronic kind, will end up resentful, jealous and self-centered.
I do not fault the previous poster for having found solace with someone else and I even think his wife probably understood. [/quote]

Yet many wives in the same position do not do this. [/quote]

Many wives in the same position do this. [/quote]

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