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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you want to marry him OP? You’re divorced and should have a good idea whether he is marriage material or not. Money alone isn’t a good enough reason.

How old are your two kids?[/quote]

I would like to marry him, but he’s kind of a confirmed bachelor. Married to work, works 60+ hours a week, travels extensively. This is why he’s a “non-boyfriend.” Although we get on really well, and do love each other, [b]he’s just not really there when it comes to commitment.[/b][/quote]

This plus your hesitation are big red flags to me. Follow your instincts but I'd probably terminate this pregnancy.[/quote]

People don’t change in their 40s, OP. You describe him as not willing to commit. Work has been his only obligation in life thus far, and it will continue to be his main focus. It’s nice that you know he’s good for child support, but if you do have the child, be prepared to be a single mom to 3 kids. You are not really forming a family with this man, you are just adding a new child to yours.[/quote]

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