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[quote=Anonymous]Speaking as someone who has 2 kids by 2 dads, I think the "3 kids by 2 dads" is the least compelling part of it all.  Basically irrelevant.

The other items listed are worth thinking through, though.  I think you should, if YOU want one more child, have him sign an ironclad child support agreement that lasts until that child is finished with college and no longer a FT student.  Escalating with father's income, as a percentage of his income.  (yes, i've done this before)  Include private school, nannies, everything you can think that you might want or need for his future child if you are not going to marry him.

If you DO marry him, he will need to treat the children equally or there will be major issues for all of the kids.  Something else to think about.  Where is dad #1?

Have a long conversation with him, after you do some soul searching.  If you don't want this pregnancy, abort and tell him you miscarried.  You can always continue the relationship if you want, and he may decide further down the road that he wants to settle down.

Your body, your choice.[/quote]

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