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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are coming from another country so yes it is for a few weeks. We don’t care to drive around here so we do busses and subways. I guess we just feel differently about who should pay for and provide food when hosting. We are not from around here, we just want to play with the grandkids. The nanny is lovely. [/quote] This is the first world OP. Parents don’t deserve respect and consideration. I love my third world country where these small values still exist. I regret raising kids here. If this a sample of what average parents need to expect. Shame on you people. These are your parents. Treat them well in their old age.[/quote] Be their servant? In that world OP would have been a stay at home mom with zero income. Remember the bit where she has to go to work to help support the family?[/quote] Women in third world countries on an average are more educated than those in the US. And most women in third world countries need to work. That doesn’t mean they treat their in-laws and parents like dirt. Real education and culture is having a heart and treating those who birthed and raised you with care, love and respect. OP is visiting her child out of the love and connection she still feels. She isn’t living there. A parent should never be made to feel like a burden at her child’s house. Would it behoove these busy bodies to arrange for their food and well being? Basic needs! There is pride and joy in putting others before you. But you need to look deep inside yourself to find that. Most people in the US are too shallow and wrapped up in themselves, to do that . Again, SHAME ON ALL OF YOU dissing these parents. Shame on this sick culture. [/quote]
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