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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just goes to show that dress size and sex life frequency and intencity don’t really matter.
I am sorry this happened to you. Desire for new things is human nature and maybe you should use this situation as a push for new things for you, too. 
A committed yet open relationship sounds fun![/quote]

Oh but they really do matter quite a lot!!
Staying thin and sexually actively does not guarantee faithfulness.
But getting fat an sexless most certainly does guarantee UN-faithfulness.
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+1.[b] I have never cheated, but my wife has all but ended our sexual relationship. Yes we have talked about it. Yes I help around the house, in fact do more than my share. There is a physical and emotional void there that needs to be fill[/b]ed.[/quote]

Dude, you are not alone.  It's been 3+ years since I've had sex with my wife - we play around every few weeks, but never PIV sex.  Driving me nuts.

I don't cheat, too much to lose.

I've talked with her about it, and it's no longer directly a medical issue like it was for a while.  She says she will try, but nothing changes. Just wish I could get a hall pass a few times a year.  I'm an active dad of two school age kids, attractive and in decent shape.  Just tell me that it is OK on a business trip if something happens, as long as you don't know about it and it doesn't impact our life together.[/quote]

You don’t need to ask her for a hall pass. Simply inform her the marriage is open. The low drive spouse in a sexless marriage does not get to vote on this. [/quote]

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