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Why didn't he think about this part in the week he had between meeting her and setting up the dinner that lead to the cheating? He had a week to process that.  As others have stated, if it was a spur of the moment  thing, had too much to drink, you could almost understand how he could not be thinking clearly, but he had an entire week of spending time with you and the kids to think about what he was about to do.  I don't know... I would find this unforgivable.[/quote]

This. This wasn't a spur of the moment poor decision. He planned ahead and did this. That's a whole lot more alarming to me than the former ([b]which I might forgive with the understanding that our marriage [u]is now DADT[/u])

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I don't get this.  Why DADT? Why not just say it's open? DADT is like saying you have an understanding that there will be cheating, and it could be happening at anytime, you just don't admit it.  Staying late for work? I MIGHT be cheating, I might not.  Quick trip to Target? She might be having a quicky with her AP or she might not.  I don't want an open marriage, but I would definitely prefer it to a DADT arrangement. [/quote]

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