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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do. My husband and I knew each other long before seriously dating and marrying (I was 35 when we got married, he was 42) and I knew who he was. He’s a great partner, we’re great friends, we’ve built a wonderful life together, and the agreement is: no long term affairs, no kids outside of our marriage, and wrap it up. I know he has dalliances when he travels and I really don’t care. I don’t feel a need to stray but know it would be okay for me to do so. It works for us. [/quote]

This is our marriage too.  Same rules, works for us.  I bet there are lots out there who feel similarly.  I assume many of those fidelity purists are newlyweds who can't fathom what a long term marriage with warts and all can look like.[/quote]

I don't think fidelity purists, more like you couldn't stop your husband so this was the next best solution. An excuse of acceptance to keep your family under one roof. All good until he finds someone else, or does get someone pregnant.[/quote]

NP. My husband did get his AP pregnant and while there was quite a bit of unpleasantness around that, we are still married.

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You are married to a cheater who had kids outside of the marriage who has no problem exposing you to potential illness and in that vein no problem depriving your kids from their mother should you contract an illness resulting in your death. But yay you're still married![/quote]

LOL you're SO invested in telling perfect strangers you know all about them. So dramatic.[/quote]

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