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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do. My husband and I knew each other long before seriously dating and marrying (I was 35 when we got married, he was 42) and I knew who he was. He’s a great partner, we’re great friends, we’ve built a wonderful life together, and the agreement is: no long term affairs, no kids outside of our marriage, and wrap it up. I know he has dalliances when he travels and I really don’t care. I don’t feel a need to stray but know it would be okay for me to do so. It works for us. [/quote]

This is our marriage too.  Same rules, works for us.  I bet there are lots out there who feel similarly.  I assume many of those fidelity purists are newlyweds who can't fathom what a long term marriage with warts and all can look like.[/quote]

I feel bad for you. A lot of psychological problems if you are accepting of this. Maybe try looking for a therapist who could help you understand why you allow this. Childhood or other issues you're not aware of.[/quote]

LOL. Welcome to DCUM, where anyone with viewpoints different from your own means they’re psychologically damaged. [/quote]

I would normally agree with this especially on DCUM. However, this is pretty sad and extreme. It may work for awhile until the kids find out, or the husband finds someone else. [/quote]

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