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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Holy moly.

I would leave my husband over this, OP. I know you don’t want to hear that, but I would.

The two of you had an agreement where you had already compromised to the point where it was quite frankly unfair for you, and then he stabs you in the back by agreeing to something he knew for a fact you’d disagree with. And not for any emergency either, just because he allowed them to manipulate him.

As for what to do for this trip, since your marriage is now on the rocks, I’d tell them to cancel their tickets entirely. If they come anyway, or your husband doesn’t have the balls to tell them (likely, I’d guess) then you book a hotel for yourself (and kids if you wish) for the entire time. Let him explain why. You’re now officially off the hook for ever dealing with them again.
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This. Good lord OP, your husband just told you that he blames you for his parents' bad behavior. You're not wrong for not liking your husband and his parents mistreating you. Then he allows his parents to trample the boundary you both just set. There's no way to limit the number of days your IL's visit because your DH isn't on board. I can't believe the number of people suggesting how to keep playing along with this crazy game until PP finally got it.

At the very least, you need marriage counseling ASAP. If your husband won't go, then you go alone to learn how to respect yourself and stop these patterns. I'm sorry for your situation. Take care, you deserve better.[/quote]

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