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[quote=Anonymous]I don't get the vengeful people.  I really don't, especially where you have kids.  Note:  Your spouse cheated on you, not your kids.  And for those of you who decided to ruin your spouse's career, how does that work out with the need for child support, alimony, etc.?  I'm pretty sure it's counterproductive to kill the source of income.  My STBX - who is the one who cheated (and cheating is the least of the reasons we are getting divorced) - always used to threaten to do things to undermine my security clearance.  I always pointed out, well good luck in keeping the house, your car, etc. in such a case.  And, since I had texts from her attesting to her desire to be a vengeful b*tch, it put her in a worse light vis-a-vis the divorce.  She was simply stupid. She was angry I was divorcing her and decided to act on the anger.  Put you emotions aside people.  Relationships fail for any number of reasons.  Put on your big girl or big boy pants, get what is legally yours, be civil - hell even be magnanimus - and you will have a better and happier future.  Good luck! [/quote]

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