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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All: don't give up. Once you meet someone, be upfront. Share that your kids come first, and that if they aren't up for the journey, then they can hit the road. As a single father in his 30's, I'd understand. With my career, 50% custody, and all the other intricacies of my life, I'd totally understand.  Out time is limited.[/quote]

Can I ask you something?  
I am a single mom of 3, work fulltime and have full custody.  So my plate is really full.  Only  thing I miss is physical intimacy. 
With my stats, I only expect to find a few times a month NSA type of arrangement with a guy.  What decent man would go for that?  And if so, why?[/quote]

Before I answer, would you be open to a real relationship? Or are you only interested in a fwb because of your "full plate?"[/quote]

Back to answer your question.  Would love a partner who truly loves me but I can also accept that such may not happen for me.
FWB may be all I can hope for.  I have not tested if I am made for such arrangement because deep down I am a relationship person.

Now I don't know if I even answered your question ...[/quote]

You answered it, sorta. I wouldn't say "such may not happen to me" because you never know. You seem to have a lot going for you, with the kiddos, the full time gig, and all your other responsibilities. Men like independent women.

If you have a FWB, stick with him long term. Some FWB relationships have great potential for LTR's. Just make sure you select a FWB that has personality, is employed, and is a great lay.

As I mentioned previously, [b]women that have been married and have children, have a different take on life. They are more mature, bold, and don't beat around the bush. [/b] Some men love this in the women they date.[/quote]

You’ve said this twice now. What on earth are you basing this on? These characteristics have nothin to do with motherhood or marriage, but the individual in question. [/quote]

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