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[quote=Anonymous]I don”t have twins but kids that are only a year apart in preschool. When the invites started coming we just explained that child A would be invited to birthday parties for the kids in A’s class and B to the B class. My 2.5 year old understood this. Sometimes when I RSVP the host kindly asks if we would like to bring a sibling or it is offered on the invite. So I would assume that if the host really is willing to take on extra guests they will offer. That said I never accept the offer because if I did then the next party one of them couldn’t go to would be drama because I would have confused their understanding of how parties work. We use it as an opportunity for one on one time and if only one parent is available we decline the invite. In OP”s case I get what she I saying about her other twin may also play with the birthday kid but so could be said of lots of other kids in the same grade. The parents are choosing to cut it off at the specific class. All parent issuing invites to parties know that the majority of the guests probably have a sibling. If they aren’t conveying this is a bring the whole family or bring all your kids regardless of venue you should respect that.[/quote]
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