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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Families have been systematically hiding this crime for years too! Our society ignored perversion for generations. No one wanted to invite shame. Reporting touchy feely “Uncle Larry” to the police would cause embarrassment to so many so you just shun him at family parties and don’t let your kids near him. Eventually he dies. And you’re left to just wonder if he did anything to the neighborhood kids or the little leaguers he coached or the paperboy down the street when no one was looking. The Catholic Church acted like one big embarrassed family. It snowballed to the point that others like “Uncle Larry” we’re drawn in because the heard they could get away with it since the higher ups were increasing baffled as to how to cope with it while saving face. Too many people inside and outside lacked courage to insist on making things right. All those doctors who treated deviant priests and cleared them for more ministry. The world today is much more open and we are lucky for that. We are lucky we’ve grown as a society that we don’t see it as shame and can confront it.[/quote] Well said! We can also make excuses and stay in the corrupt system because so much about it feels good -- or used to feel good. Such pleasant memories - so tempting to want to pass that on to our children. But the crap gets passed on too.[/quote]
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