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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some people manage to let go, being there for these kids etc but for some people it's just too hard. Because YOU managed to maintain a friendship doesn't mean everybody has to.[/quote] This was not a friendship, it was immediate family (who were pretty close before this). That behavior is rude and hurtful, and while I agree forgiveness is appropriate here that also requires an apology and acknowledgement of having been selfish/wrong/having caused hurt on the part of the injuring party. To just expect to be able to pop back in at will without doing the damage control work, no matter what they were going through, is unreasonable. Again, I agree OP should forgive them and work on putting the hurt of the past behind, but that requires work from them as well. Infertility sucks, but does not give you a free pass to be rude, selfish, and never have to answer for it[/quote]
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