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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if this is the first and only time this has happened and in general you feel you have a strong and happy relationship, NO, I would not rush off the a divorce lawyer. I would, however, be very clear with him that this is not okay and can't keep happening: if it recurs, it will eventually destroy the relationship permanently. My DH struggles with serious depression and anger issues. We came very close to separating over his rages. (No physical threats but no question, it's abusive). I finally said: if this happens again, EVER, we're separating immediately. As a result he has finally, after years of resistance, gone into therapy and is on medication. It has made a world of difference. Are we out of the woods? I honestly don't know, but I am glad he is taking responsibility for his behavior, starting to grapple with the underlying issues (horrible childhood, some PTSD from military, etc). I think the question with your DH is: what's going on? [/quote]
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