Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "DCUM- you're my only hope. Well...no but here I am anyway."
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to be having different, more clear, more effective communication with your husband. Get a therapist who can help you w/ that. I'd recommend someone trained in the Gottman techniques and approaches. You would find that you are a serious contributing factor to the marital problems because of your contempt - it's one of the worst indicators of a failing marriage. I see nothing in this lengthy thread that indicates you are open to viewpoints or approaches that don't reinforce your existing thinking. So you don't really want help - you just want support to leave the marriage and blame it's failure on your husband. I don't think you're blameless and I don't see a marriage that can't be saved.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
