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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't help you until I know what this job is. Those are bartender hours but bartenders don't travel for work.

Ultimately, I think you need to present to him similarly to how you presented it here and leave it in his lap:

I love you. I love that you love your job. I don't want to take that from you but I can't continue to live this way. I don't feel right asking you to leave your job for a more traditional job, so I think we need to divorce for my health and for the well-being of our children. See how he responds.[/quote]

He's not a bartender: he handles PR in sports.  Which you assume, hey, normal hours. NOPE. And shit pay. Because it's a dream job.

But I like what your wrote.  Most of the stuff up here has been reasonable. Go DCUM.[/quote]

It is a dream job for little boys, not men who have little children. He needs to get a promotion into position with normal hours. This is what parents do.[/quote]

Sure if he was a she you would be all over the OP for crushing her dreams. The privilege of being a woman is taking a dream job while the man has to take a job that brings in the money. When the man complains about being the money cow everyone tells him to shut up. OP needs to man up and be an adult. [/quote]

There we go! Here's some real gas-lighting folks! THe selfish absentee "husband" is the victim I say!

See how crazy and selfish OP is that her absentee husband pulling in peanuts while she does everything at home, at work and with her cancer is? How dare she ask him to get a different job so he can be present for the family, kids and her. How dare she![/quote]

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