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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Total crap that someone taking care of 3 very young kids still somehow needs to do everything around the house.

How?

It's not possible. Her job is taking care of the kids. She can cook for them and do some grocery runs. But everything else she has to do when they are sleeping and that is basically the same time her DH has to do the work. Which he should. I work PT and being home is harder getting stuff done than at work. At work, I can piss in peace. At work, I can make doctor's appointments and take care of admin stuff for our house. At home, I can't do jack until 8 at night.

OP, you need to have a come to jesus with him. Or tell him to hire you cleaners and a mother's helper. It's ridiculous. But yeah, don't divorce with young kids bc then it's way harder.[/quote]

Sounds like you and OP aren't suited to life as SAHM - FT or PT.  If you can't figure out how to do stuff while you've got kids at home, outsource it and go back to work.  Not that hard and not DH's fault.[/quote]

You’re an idiot, too. I can do SOME housework when the kids are around and I do, but I only have one in full time school and the other ones are preschool and toddler aged so [b]my day is a lot of crisis management and putting out fires[/b]. I am doing a lot of house work after bedtime. [/quote]

Yeaaaaaahhhhh, you're not suited to the SAH life.  :roll: [/quote]

Unfortunately I don’t think OP would be suited to a paid job either. If it was infant triplets, maybe her story would hold water. But with a kid in school full time and another in preschool so she’s got one toddler and her day is crisis management? Maybe the government would hire her but no way she keeps a private sector job with such poor skills. [/quote]

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