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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How could the girl possibly respond other than to tell him off?[/quote]

All simple, "I don't care to discuss that, Mr. Friend. But on the topic of social lives, ____? (change the topic with a question that gives him an opening to discuss some mutual acquaintance, one of his kids, or an event he went to recently)"

Then she can excuse herself as soon as a natural break in the conversation arises.

Learning to deflect intrusive questions gracefully and set boundaries in social interactions while minimizing any awkwardness and keeping the conversation flowing is a useful skill for young people to develop, as it would serve anyone well throughout life. [/quote]

Vomit.  What that man said was totally inappropriate.  It wasn't an "intrusive question," it was a comment in the form of a question that was really intended to embarrass that girl.  And she responded in a perfectly polite manner.  She didn't call him names, she didn't use profanity, she told him the comment was insensitive, which it was, and left.  Why would she want to continue a discussion with perverted homophobic middle-aged man?  He should feel awkward about being a skeeve.  And her father should be ashamed of himself.  [/quote]

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