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No we're saying that she must have really loved him to have [b]stuck it out with someone 11 years older than her who was clearly not on track to become super rich. [/b]

She left him when he showed he didn't really love her and definitely was not generous.

You're completely ignoring the fact that they've been dating for three years. She's really playing the long gold digger game if she's asking for 600 bucks after 3 years. [/quote]

Post after post, you basically keep arguing how the GF is basically sacrificing herself "putting up" with their age difference and his "only 90k/year" salary.  (or "loving him so much she put up with him being 11 years older."  lmao)  First of all, 35 is not that old - it's not like he's in his 80s and she has to put up with his wrinkles and health issues.  I mean, come ON.  Sure, comparatively it's a huge difference, but have you considered that some women *like and prefer* older guys, even from a young age.  Not saying it's common but it happens.  Not saying those relationships tend to/not work out, but you guys are being so weird assuming that this is something she's had to "deal with."  LOL.  I mean, how old are you?

Second, to a student who's never been out in the world and who's ever only made up to $24k, $90k is a lot.  He's obviously well off enough to pay for fancy trips (except for the plane) and that's way better than dating another broke grad student.  I say this with fond memories of my own broke grad school days.

You come at this like OP owes her something for being "old" and "unsuccessful" and something she's had to deal with and he deserves whatever dumping he gets based on his unwillingness to give her money.  This just seems really shallow and f'ed up, for lack of better words.[/quote]

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