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Your assumptions are off -- I said very early in the thread that when there's a big income discrepancy either the couple lives to the broke one's standards or the rich one treats.  He was making her pay for airfare to take trips she couldn't afford and now he's single.  [b]They didn't have to travel, they could have dated a lot more cheaply -- that's what I did when I met my DH!  [/b]But you think that your internalized misogyny makes you a neutral arbiter -- except in your world a grad student in CC debt asking the boyfriend of three years who's been breaking her bank account to help her with minimums until her next stipend is a "mooch" and a "gold digger"?  Mkay.  [/quote]

[b]That's not why they broke up.  For all you know she wanted to travel and have OP pay for everything but the plane tickets.  Now you're just making crap up.
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Also, saying that women should pay for their own credit card debt and not expect a man to swoop in a save her makes me a misogynist now?   Take a hike!  :lol: [/quote]

Read the thread.  He said she canceled the trip and broke up with him.  She couldn't afford to travel like he can.   And no, what makes PP a misogynist is all the name calling -- calling a person a gold digger on the flimsiest of evidence (like the other PP said, waiting 3 years to ask for $600 is a very long con) and then doubling, tripling, quadrupling down on a gendered slur is misogynist.  [/quote]

It's obvious she can't afford to travel when she's that much in debt with so little income, but no where does OP say she doesn't *want* to take them.  She cancelled the last trip because they broke up/she's throwing a fit over the CC bill.  People make dumb financial decisions all the time.  You're just pathetic with the assumptions.  I say you're the misogynist, since you obviously think the only good thing OP's got going for him is to be sugar daddy to his younger GF.  Grow up.  [/quote]

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