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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Imagine you are a normal single girl.  You spend your time working, partying, dating, going out, sleeping in, traveling on a moment's notice.  You spend your money on clothes, grooming, and things that are important only to you. Your stress level is non-existent.  Your responsibilities to anyone who isn't you are zero.

Now imagine ten years later you are a mother of three small children who also works and owns and house.  Your entire life is devoted to people other than you who need you because they can't do shit for themselves.  The entire responsibility for how these people turn out is on your shoulders.  You HAVE to hold down your job to pay for your house.  You HAVE to put dinner on the table every day because the version of you ten years ago could have been happy with chips and margarita, three young kids who look at you expectingly every evening will decidedly not be.  You have to juggle a million thoughts and responsibilities in your mind.  The last time you slept in was under general anesthesia for your last C-section.  Your body is OK for your age but three pregnancies and births have written their own stories all over it. You buy stuff for yourself occasionally with what's left after serving all other needs.  You love your life.  But it has nothing in common with how you lived ten years ago.

Then you read an indignant account from a DCUM poster who says, why aren't you exactly like you were ten years ago???

And you say, because my life is no longer what it was, and I wonder how it is that you don't know it. [/quote]

You sound like an incredible martyr without any help at all from your pathetic spouse! We at DCUM are proud to have such an incredible story of strength among us. How can you possibly keep going under those conditions? No wonder you don't want sex!

But..... why are you still married to such a worthless lump of flesh? Divorce him now! Single motherhood will be much easier for you. Or, find a new man who is an equal partner, one who you actually want sex with.[/quote]

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