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[quote=Anonymous]I am a 50+ years old DW in a good marriage.  Our sex life is important to us and it is a way for us to connect and de-stress as a couple.

The truth is that for most men and women the lack of libido stems from several things 1) Physiological reasons - diseases, obesity, high BP, uncontrolled blood sugar, thyroid dysfunction, diminished levels of hormones, zinc, b vitamins, magnesium,  2) Physiological reasons - depression, stress, anxiety, personality disorders, abuse-adultery-addiction 3) Lack of mutual physical attraction -  we are older, saggier, grayer, balder, fatter and more wrinkled.  We are not as attractive as we were in our youth. 4) Lack of pleasure - Sex is supposed to be pleasurable, however for women how we get our orgasms is a moving target.  In other words, women don't want sex if they are not having orgasms and a lot of time women are not.  When sex is not pleasurable then it is at best annoying and at worst disgusting.  '

I feel very sorry for everyone who is in the situation of OP. We have finite time in this life to be with our spouses and to have sex. If people are unwilling to have sex due to any reason, they owe it to themselves and their spouses to remedy the situation by finding out the underlying reason(s) and fixing it. [/quote]

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