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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Statistically, men who divorce end up with women identical to or similar to the women they married in the first place. They repeat the same issues over and over because they refuse to do the work to address their own issues or understand why they are drawn to certain women. [/quote]

Statistically, men who divorce end up with second wives who are on average 8 years younger.  [/quote] [b]and likely the same or identical in personality to the first wife - which is why most second marriages end in divorce.[/b][/quote]

No, not in my experience.  All my divorced male friends who remarried are with the exact opposite (looks, and personality) from their exes.  One of those friends is getting close to his 25th anniversary with wife #2, and one is at his 15th anniversary with wife #2.  100 percent of these friends report relationship #2 is night-and-day better.

Speaking just for myself, it has amazed me how kind my girlfriend is.  She is the exact opposite from my ex-wife.  My new love never has a tantrum, never gaslights, never does guilt trips, never calls me names, never uses sex as a weapon, never nags, and she makes as much as me and owns her own house and investment property.  Plus she is younger and thinner than the ex and has family money.

I think I'm going to write a book about divorced men, their miserable lives with their shrews, and their happily ever after lives after divorce.  
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Ha! Give it a couple years, you'll be calling her a shrew, too. [/quote]

Exactly. They are always wonderful, kind, and patient in the beginning.  Statistics don't lie. Second marriages fail at a greater rate. [/quote]

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