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[quote=Anonymous]For high-libido people, a low-libido's spouse's unwillingness to address the disparity reveals an indifference to their needs that damages trust. In the happy low-sex marriages both partners have come to agree on the amount of sex happening between them. The respect and trust endure when two people deal with it together. To pull in another example, if my lifelong dream was to own a beagle and my DH did not want to ever have a dog it would bother me if he made no attempt to find a solution to my desire for animal companionship. Now if DH were allergic to all pets obviously I couldn't hold it against him. But OP's DW has no medical impediment to engaging in regular sexual contact. She just doesn't care enough about him to make the effort or propose viable alternatives. That selfish rigidity cannot be the source of a strong partnership. Lack of physical drive is just an excuse.[/quote]
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