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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For many cheaters, it’s not really about sex. The number of people you see, especially on here, who don’t really like their spouses is astonishing. But then they have kids, a mortgage, whatever. So one day they come across someone they actually like - the person they should have held out for if only they had known. So they make stupid decisions, or in some cases it is the least bad option on the table. I have seen people with kids and batsh*t crazy spouses with whom the person doesn’t want to leave their kids alone with, which would happen if they divorce, because it’s really hard to get sole custody, especially for men.

Life just isn’t that absolute, and people make do the best they can. And for some of you who cannot see shades of gray in life also don’t see that maybe that rigidity you have is what your spouse wasn’t able to deal with. [/quote]

But there will always be better person outthere. Grass will always be greener. The institution of marriage was created to resist the onslaught of temptations, changes, life's problems and challenges. Today, no one needs to be or stay in a marriage but those that do should do it as part of selfless act, something easily forgotten in me-oriented society. This, of course, excludes the acts of physical violence and abuse. No one should stay in those situations.[/quote]

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