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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I feel the need to explain that marriage is not something I am interested in.  BF has asked twice over the years Ive known him.  I have my own personal reasons for not marrying again. This whole turn of "3 years no ring, get a clue sister" is bizarre to me in 2018.[/quote]

Not to pile on you too much but maybe this is part of the reason he snapped when you told him the arrangement makes you uncomfortable. [b]You don't want the commitment/obligations of marriage[/b] yet you call him out for an arrangement that you would only have a say in if you were married and combined finances. He can't win either way.[/quote]

We don't know enough about OP's situation to judge her level of commitment, obligation, responsibility, etc.  You are assuming a lot about the nature of their relationship based on her lack of interest in a piece of paper.

Good for you, OP.  And I agree with you that in 2018, this discussion about marriage is pretty sad.

And I'm posting as someone who thinks OP's concerns about the financial arrangements with the ex are misguided.

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