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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Ok noted.  I just think its odd an ex spouse would have direct access to his funds. But I guess I am wrong. [/quote]

My thought is he probably has more than one account and this is the one his ex has a few checks.[/quote]

+1. If he trusts her with not abusing it and it works for them. May be he is not good at paying back and it becomes source of frustration for both of them when after 3-4 months she realizes that he never paid her back for summer camp or music lessons or whatever. May be your boyfriend just doesn’t want to bother with small checks and he doesn’t see it worth his time to keep writing checks for 50-100 $ for all these smallish expenses. He could have a separate checking account that has limits, so it’s not like the ex can write herself a check for 100K from it.

The fact that he snapped at you may show some pent up frustration there, and since you just moved in 3 months ago, I would venture to guess there are also other things that are stressing him in your relationship. [/quote]

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