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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is unusual, but I could actually see me and my ex doing something like this.  We trust each other.  We have keys to each other's houses.  When he's on a deployment, I collect his mail and drive his car to keep the battery charged.  He'll give me checks for his deployment in advance, trusting me to cash them only when I'm supposed to.  I've left him an "in case of my death" file so he can access stuff if something happens to me.  He doesn't trust paypal or other online services so checks work for us.

It's not like the ex has access to all of his accounts - she has access to one account they've designated for their kid.  He must know she wouldn't abuse the privilege.[/quote]

Ex-army wife here, and we are the same way. Our divorce was not nasty in anyway. We both realized the marriage was not going to work with our individual life situations (his frequent deployments and my travel-heavy career). It’s been 3 years and he is my emergency contact on everything, my TOD, his truck is in my garage right now because he’s deployed, I’m doing his taxes for him. He will always be family to me, just like the mother of your BF’s children will always be family to him. [/quote]

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