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Life is hard enough with no guarantees.

It’s great if you want more degrees and certificates or whatever. But at the end of the day some women really know security. Marrying early into a rich family provides them with the guaranteed financial security that no prestigious job ever ever.

With a strategic and well timed marriage, they are guaranteed entry and membership into the upper class or upper middle class. They don’t have to take the gmats, work thankless ours trying to move up and be noticed. By marrying well they can be the wife of the hot shot engineer and have a father in law who is a ceo and rub shoulders with and be acknowledged by the best and the brightest. [/quote]

Are you dumb or something? Do you not understand that they have access to this life at the pleasure of the husband/his family? Which can, and does, change on a whim? It's great if all ends well but if not, she'd be a dumped divorcee with no skills trying to start a life.

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I know a pretty girl who married an astronaut. She has never taken a high level calculus or physics classes. Doesn’t know much about geopolitical strife the Middle East but now has a father in law who is a law firm partner and she attends NASA rocket launches. Her social circle is filled with intelligent acconplished people who are changing the world. And she is rich and has access to their multiple properties.

She didn’t even have to work very hard to accomplish all this. [/quote]

I don't even know how to explain this to you since it should be so obvious.  You don't automatically enter a circle of smart accomplished people by marrying one of them because - please pay attention here - if you are not smart and accomplished yourself, these people have NO INTEREST in you.  You have nothing to talk about. You bore them.  You are there as a pretty piece of furniture owned by one of them, but unless you can carry your own conversation and say meaningful things, these people will not even notice you.  You'll be a non-entity.  Imagine that by some stroke of luck you found yourself at a party for the world's top ten bestselling authors.  Do you think any of them would have a slightest interest in you just because you're there?[/quote]

Unless someone is a self-centered snob, they can always find something to converse about with another person.  Good listeners will always be in demand. [/quote]

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