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Your mistake is being indiscriminately social.

It's a turn-off, because people don't see you as wanting to be "their" best friend, and as we are all pulled left and right with tons of obligations, we're not going to drop everything else for someone who keeps inviting all and sundry.

All the people I know are transplants like us, without family in the area, and none of us host like you. We made friends through our kids' preschools, etc, and have developed a small but precious circle of friends. 
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So you probably just see your ‘friends’ during the kids’ play dates and birthday parties, right?[/quote]

Oh and of course chat for a few minutes during the preschool pickup/drop offs.[/quote]

No. They cared for me when I was recovering from major surgery; checked on my house, mowed the lawn and watered my plants when we were away for 6 months; and I have done the same for them.

Perhaps you should check the definition of friend.
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