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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why not wait for school until all your kids are in school?[/quote]

Op here. It's a very hard program to get into. I am eager to start my career now. I don't want to be 40 and in school. I will also have a greater salary, which means more money for childcare. [/quote]

you are eager to star you career now so you can't have the baby. but in 7 years you will be eager to continue the career and will be raising three children! how do you plan to do that? [/quote]

I don't understand why you are being so harsh to OP. Many, many women work while raising young children. Not all of us can be SAHMs. Op, don't post on here anymore. There is nothing but bitter women who hate career driven women, likely because they don't have the skills to have one. [/quote]

ummm, thanks. i am working and raising children. the point is not that that is no possible. but the point is that this is not any easier than having a baby while going to school! if you claim that you can't go to some harsh program (puh-lease, it's nursing) and having one baby because "she doesn't like leaving the baby with the nanny and her husband works 50 hours a week while trying to become partner" how is she going to raise three (3!!) children (who are going to be born in the span of 5 years) and pursue her career with a husband who is a law firm partner?[/quote]

Slow clap for you pp for working and raising children. You are like almost every other parent. Your snarky attitude towards a profession is uncalled for. Unless you are a nurse, you don't know what it's like, or how hard of a program it may be. [/quote]

Honestly PP has a point though. OP keeps talking like the fact that her DH works 50 hour weeks is exceptional and will make it impossible...but he's trying to make partner, she HAS to know that's only going to continue/get worse, right? Ditto with her concerns about leaving the baby(babies...) with a childcare provider - how is the need for that going to change at all in 2 years? If she's so into this career then she will be working, right?[/quote]

My problem is with her belittling a profession she likely doesn't knows anything about. I come from a long line nurses, and it's hard work. [/quote]

i don't know much about nursing but i do know this: when you have a total garbage if a paper that you can't publish anywhere, send it to a nursing journal. they have very high standards :)[/quote]

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