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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing...many times having an affair is not one big choice to "have an affair." [b]It's a lot of small choices that snowball [/b]and in six months you're having an affair. Right now you're like, it's no big deal for me to email her. [b]No big deal for me to text her. No big deal for me to email/text after work on weekends. No big deal to have lunch alone. To have a drink alone. It's no big deal for me to give a hug. [/b]To give just one kiss. NBD to talk every day. NBD to meet at this conference...go to the hotel room...etc.

[b]It's small choices that add up.[/b] If you want it to stop, stop it now. Today. Before your mind starts justifying all your actions and you start telling yourself, it's no big deal. [b]Before you start rewriting your marital history in order to make your actions acceptable.[/b] I've been there. All of my small choices added up to an affair and it was by far the most hurtful and destructive thing I've ever done. I would not wish that pain on anyone. Also, Not Just Friends is a very good book. [/quote]

Take this advice from soneone who knows what they are talking about![/quote]

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

I don't think this is a troll. This is very, very common, unfortunately.[/quote]

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