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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will repeat what I said earlier in the thread - she's not as innocent as you think. I can tell you think the best of people (with the exception of yourself - you're extremely hard on yourself) - but she knows what she's doing. She's sending you pictures of herself, FFS? That's highly inappropriate and she wants you to hot for her.

If it's indeed true that she's like this with everyone then she desperately wants male (sexual) attention and that's pathetic.

Does that make you look at her in a different way?[/quote]

I appreciate your giving me the benefit of the doubt but the pic was funny, not sexual. Our conversations have never veered into the sexual, nor do I want them to. I blame myself for texting her.[/quote]

^ PP with recent similar experience with spouse again. Her end game may not be stealing you away, but keeping your attention. My spouse's person was seriously girlfriending herself into his life, in the most "innocent" way. Offering to watch his rec sports games, commenting constantly on Facebook, stroking his ego. Don't text her again. The next time she texts you, don't respond. Better yet, block her number.

If things escalate, even if it stays "innocent," you will risk having your wife lose her trust in you and you'll be responsible for the aftermath. Trust me on this. The minute it doesn't feel right is the minute you need to cut off contact.[/quote]

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