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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here is what could be going on, based on what I experienced myself and knowing other new mothers on maternity leaves. Even when you know you have to go back to work, because your family will not be able to pay the bills if you do not, and child care is all lined up, there is a primal and desperate terror at the thought of leaving your infant child for so many hours each day. This employee may understand on a rational level that such a last minute request to use vacation time is unprofessional and inconsiderate. However, emotionally, she may be searching for any way out of having to part from her baby. Please keep this in mind when denying the extension, and do it both kindly and firmly. Maybe offer half days the first week back, or mention that there is a pumping area reserved for her to use. Be as supportive as you can for what is an exhausting and time and difficult transition for many mothers. There is just something gut wrenching about the anxiety of managing the transition back to work, for many new moms.[/quote] This is nuts. Employer should not have to deal with (female) employees in this manner. Employer offered a very reasonable paid maternity leave. [b]This employee nonsense really hurts women professionally[/b]. [/quote] This! As a woman who did a lot of hiring, I started to find myself favoring the male candidates. I needed butts in chairs doing the work. [/quote]
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