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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don't want to get trapped, don't put sperm in them. [/quote]

Except on the "didn't actually get a vasectomy" and "didn't pull out in time" thread we learn how entrapment is abuse.  But like many things in life, I guess it's only abuse if men do it.

His stupidity in trusting his partner (lesson men: never trust women -- if you do, they'll just call you stupid later for doing so) does not justify her abuse.[/quote]

Yes, it is fraud for a woman to entrap a man with a pregnancy.  However, unless the man is mentally challenged, he needs to understand that birth control fails, people forget to take pills, and some people even lie.  Therefore, as I told the young men in my family, do not leave sperm anywhere it can be used to make a baby.

It's not about "justifying" abuse.  It's about retaining ownership and control over your own DNA and not giving possession of it to a third party.  Once you relinquish possession of your sperm, you leave yourself at the mercy of a third party.  [/quote]

You fail to understand my point.  In previous threads about men who tricked women into getting pregnant, a large percentage of posters claimed this was abuse.  Links to domestic abuse hotlines were provided.

While both partners should take precautions to avoid pregnancy, it is still equally as abusive to purposefully entrap a man as it is to entrap a woman.  It is not just fraud.  It is abuse.

The point about trust was just a personal observation.  A majority of posters here believe that men would be stupid to trust the women they are dating to not abuse them.  I agree.  But have you all fully thought through the consequences of living in a society where the vast majority of men fully understand they should never trust the women they are dating?

(Fwiw I am happily married with multiple kids.  I think it's I'll advised to have sex outside of marriage at all, so I offer these comments as sociological observation only).[/quote]

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