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Reply to "Girlfriend is demanding that we get married and have a baby ASAP"
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[quote=Anonymous]This is a difficult one. You do need to find out why the sudden (?) urgency. Also, given the background, I do think you need more time, even if you think you can see yourself with that woman and another baby in the long run. Could you encourage her to freeze some of her eggs so that she can have a child, with or without you, later on, even without your consent? I would probably lean towards not having more children in this situation, as both partners already have one child, and merging the families (with or without marriage) won't be easy, without bringing a baby into the mix. I suspect the baby would be a particularly difficult adjustment for your daughter, as the baby will now take a lot of (your) attention away from her, and she is already grieving for her mother. If you do prefer not to even consider another baby in the near to medium term, I do think you should let your girlfriend know, explaining your side. [/quote]
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