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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]13:06 with the break-down Ex here. This thread has been derailed for 3 pages by somebody who is definitely not a therapist and doesn't seem much older than 13.

Let's get back to OP's question about posters' relationships with their parents.

My dad died when I was youngish so I didn't really have a chance to dislike him.  I did admire him a lot for his patience and wisdom.

When I was about 32 I realized that my mom is very needy and will take as much as I can give and then ask for more. I learned to put boundaries between us. My sister had figured this all out as a teen.[/quote]

My father just passed away in January. My mom has always been very needy. I have a twin brother. Much like you, he learned to put up boundaries very early on. I have not, so I still cater to a lot. Quite frankly, I am the only one who takes her calls!

The thing I hate the most though, is that even though I am the one that is there for her, whenever I am around, all she asks about is my brother. How he is doing, why he doesn't take her calls, etc.

It really hurts me that she doesn't see the son who is trying to have a relationship with her because she is too preoccupied with the one who doesn't.[/quote]

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