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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Reposting for formatting. [quote=Anonymous] I guess I am really confused as how you justify your behavior and your life. You and your DH have a self-admitted dysfunctional marriage, which you also admit creates resentment from your child, but you think you are doing the right thing by staying together... You are doing that for the kid. Let me repeat that, since you don't seem to be able to read well. 1. My marriage is dysfunctional 2. My children are learning to hate their father and quite possibly me because of the dysfunctional marriage But, somehow, us staying together, is in the best interest of the kids. Am I missing something?[/quote] Yes. You're missing that I'm not OP or the PP in the dysfunctional marriage, although you're responding to me. Newsflash: there seem to be several of us here who find you ignorant, naive, and appalling. PS. one more reference to everybody else's "lack of reading comprehension" and you might as well tattoo "I'm a 13-year-old troll" on your forehead.[/quote] Several... as in 3? Wow... Thanks to the 3 whole people on DCUM that believe that the best option available, is to demonstrate how an unhealthy relationship works to their children, I think I will completely change my mind. Damn, wish that happened sooner. Maybe you should get a tattoo on your forehead - "Weak, Pathetic, Shitty Parent" [/quote] You seem a little wound up. And thanks for stealing my line about the tattoo--imitation obviously being the sincerest form of flattery. Almost doesn't seem worth pointing out that dealing with 20 kids who come from dysfunctional families doesn't exactly make you an expert on what makes families and parents tick. You should get out there more, meet some families that worked it out. Meet some kids who were saved from joint custody with one of the parents being deranged or angry or incompetent or mentally ill or addicted. It's pretty hard to get sole custody, you know, so for some of us protecting the kids is the only reason to stay with a jerk.[/quote] Again, I was responding to what ONE person wrote... Not telling ALL people that the answer is the leave... I think you are really having a hard time reading or understanding the situation... Which, I feel bad for you, but reading comprehension!!! Again, the poster I responded to said... I HAVE A DYSFUNCTIONAL MARRIAGE MY CHILDREN ARE STARTING TO HATE THEIR FATHER and MAY FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT ME... She didn't say, oh, my DH is abusing my kids and is off his rocker and I need to stay for my kids... She said... I MAINTAIN A DYSFUNCTIONAL MARRIAGE, WHICH IS NOW AFFECTING MY KIDS TO THE POINT THAT THEY HATE US... I don't really see any justification for that... But, somehow, you all take that as some manifesto against all married couples that have children and go through rough times... Again, there must be some level of projection going on here...[/quote] Oh go away. You may work with kids, but you're worse than many armchair psychologists.[/quote]
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