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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree it's more about values and/or religion than money.

I have been at home since my oldest was born 8 years ago. My younger child goes to full time school this coming fall and my husband is starting to make noise about me working, despite the fact that he makes $250k, we save agressively and live modestly and have no debt other than our 15-year mortgage. Financially, I do NOT need to work at all. But he just doesn't value it as much as I do. I thought we were on the same page but obviously not.[/quote]

Perhaps your husband is tired of having to save aggressively and live modestly?[/quote]

We don't have to. We just do because that's what he wants. We are 36 and have college for two kids 100% saved for and over $500k in retirement accounts. Our mortgage will be gone when we are 50. We could certainly spend more than we do without being irresponsible. He doesn't want me to work for spending money. He wants me to work for even more savings. [/quote]

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