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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP,

Based on your description, your DH is being a bit of a baby. But you can err on the side of being the "grown up" and just say "I'm sorry I snapped at you, but ... [and then explain that you are uncomfortable when he does that, etc.]."

It's better to clear the air, then let him get sulky and resentful over what really doesn't sound like a big deal.[/quote]

She did that. He became cold and stormed out of the house.[/quote]

If the situation went down precisely as OP described than there are two possible scenarios,

1) Her husband is a completely whiny jerk or

2) Intimacy issues have been growing between them and a seemingly small issue has blown up into a larger emotional reaction, likely because the anger is coming out of a growing problem, not this one incident.

To me, number 2 seems more likely because she still has sex with this guy twice a week and had another kid with him and doesn't seem to hate her DH otherwise. And if #2 is correct than all you people giving her advice that he's a jerk and she should enjoy the extra bed space tonight are only giving her advice on how to widen the divide in her marriage. [/quote]

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