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Dude, the thing you are missing is that she asked him not to grope her breasts IN FRONT OF THEIR CHILD. She didn't say "Don't ever touch me sexually again." She didn't say "We are just going to be roommates from now on." She said she didn't feel like it was appropriate for him to just reach over and fondle her breasts while they were sitting there watching TV. Until you have more information that rejection is happening elsewhere, you work with the facts in front of you. The facts in front of you say that she made a fairly reasonable request but used a snippy tone, and then despite trying to talk to him about it later, he continued acting like a jerk.

You need to learn to stop projecting your own issues onto other people's situations, or learn better reading comprehension, or both.[/quote]

In front of a 17 month old who doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground.  Go clutch your pearls and be offended elsewhere.  There was nothing wrong with it.  Nothing wrong with her saying no, bit the angry response is something to be aware of.

You really need to grow up and learn how married life is, a 17 month old doesn't know what he was trying to do.[/quote]

I'm guessing the kid was an excuse. If he'd waited until she went to the kitchen and started doing the same thing, I'm guessing that the response would have been more or less the same. Made up excuses just make the rejection that much more frustrating. Because the guy will often take them literally, fix the stated problem, and find that the rejection continues. [/quote]

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