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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP can you afford an egg donor and a surrogate? Then no hormones at all, and the baby will be biologically your DH's. It really sounds like you feel the risk of any infertility treatment or the hormones from pregnancy are making you too nervous. If that's your decision that is OK. It is your decision. The risk is low but nothing is without risk. You could also decide to do one round of IVF and then get a complete oopherectomy and hysterectomy and breast removal. Everything has risks and benefits. It's really hard. A lot of us are going through the same decisions and there's not one right answer. Good luck. [/quote] OP here. Well, we are thinking about donor egg and surrogate. Though 100K + is really hard to fathom right now. It is really hard. Every day I think about how our family does not feel complete, why I am not able to get pregnant, and what route I should take. It's very stressful and difficult. I've been researching more into a gestational surrogate and oddly enough I met one at a Christmas Party last week who talked to me about the process from the surrogate's point of view, it was very interesting. I'm really paralyzed with fear at this point about doing more infertility treatments. [/quote]
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