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[quote=Anonymous]The sexism in this thread is really apparent. If the sexes were reversed, everyone would tell OP to drop her fiance for being financially irresponsible. It is completely reasonable for a man to be concerned about his potential spouse's finances, especially considering that he had two children of his own to provide for. For an average person, their spouse's finances has a significant impact on their life together. If OP didn't recognize that, he would be financially irresponsible.

However, the private school issue might be non- negotiable since it might be something the fiancée's ex insists on. The fact that she's carrying significant cc debt and student loan balance in her late thirties is more troubling because it might be indicative of a larger pattern of financial irresponsibility.

Before they get married, they should go to a financial planner. Make a budget that lays out the potential expenses for their life together. Discuss how they will meet those expenses. Talking numbers could clarify a lot issues for the both of them.

-a woman[/quote]

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