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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. Obviously this whole story is very ugly. But look at the Harts. If Myka and her family felt that trapped by the decision, there are much worse ways for this to have ended. Lots of adoptions end this way, and people don't like to talk about it, but caring for a SN child can be very taxing and not everyone is cut out for it. If I can respect the first parent for offering the child up for adoption, I can respect the adoptive parent for finding herself in the same shoes. Before the Harts drove their family off a cliff, they had beaten, starved, strangled, and isolated their adoptive kids, sometimes keeping their heads under cold water while beating and strangling them. Yet their social media presented a perfect, happy family of 6 adopted kids. I would much rather they "re-homed" the children. Yes, the ideal is that these people would be the great parents they pretended to be. But the reality is that many people are horrible parents and don't have the basic skills to even start to improve. Ugly reality. [/quote] DP. That’s not what happened with the Harts. They weren’t good people that adopted and felt overwhelmed. They were abusers who sought out victims and ultimately killed them. The Harts pulled their kids from school once they were being investigated for abuse. If your point was that the Stauffers were also terrible people then I agree. But a lot of people in stressful situations don’t do what either of these families did. I’m not giving someone props for declining to murder their kids. [/quote]
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